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Islam Aur Musht Zani (Masturbation In Islam)

Musht Zani (masturbation) kay hawaley sey doosra ahem masla ehsaas e gunah ka hai. Merey ek client ney musht zani sey bachney ki bharpoor koshish ki magar kamyaab na ho saka. Phir ehsaas e gunah ki shiddat ki wajah sey khudkushi kii magar khushqismati sey kamyaab na ho saka. Musht Zani gunah hai ya nahi, chota gunah hai ya barra, iss per ikhtilaf e raey ho sakta hai magar khudkushi per to dozakh lazim ho jati hai.

Musht Zani/khud lazzati key hawaley sey ek baat zehen mein rahey kay shuru mein amooman naujawan isey shauq sey nahin kartey bul kay majbooran kartey hain. Dar asal mard kay masaney kay qareeb mani ki do thaeliyan seminal vesicles hoti hain jo mani (semen) ka ek hissa banati hain.


Yeh naaliyan taqreeban 3.5 din ba'ad bhar jati hain, mani ka ikhraj na honay per inn mein irritation aur tension hoti hai jis ki wajah sey fard khudlazzati/musht zani per majboor ho jata hai.

Musht Zani kay hawaley sey imamo'n ki ra'ey mein ikhtilaf hai.

  1. Imam Malik aur Imam Shafa'ee isey gunah aur haram samajhtey hain.
  2. Imam Abuhanifa kay nazdeek gunah sey bachney kay liye ba'waqt e zaroorat ki ja sakti hai aur Khuda maaf farma dey ga.
  3. Imam Han'bal isey ja'ez samajhtey hain aur in kay nazdeek iss ka koi gunah nahin.

Islam mein halal aur haram bohut wazeh hain. Islam ka ek bunyaadi usool yeh hai kay har cheez halal hai jab tak Allah aur uskay Rasool ney usko haram na qarar diya ho. Quran Majeed mein musht zani kay haram honay ka kahin bhi wazeh zikr nahin. Ba'az ulma'a ney sura Momineen ki aayat 5,6 :

"yaqeenan falah paee eeman laney walo'n ney jo …apni sharamgaho'n ki hifazat kartey hain, siwaey apni biwiyon aur londiyon kay"

sey akhaz karney ki koshish ki hai kay yeh haram hai jab kay bohut sey doosrey ulma'a ney yeh mafhoom nahin liye. Kuch ney kaha kay iss sey muraad mat'aa hai ba'az ney kaha kay iss sey muraad zina hai. Yani iss hawaley sey ahl e ilm mein khasa ikhtilaaf hai. Agar iss sey murad musht zani li jaey to phir iss sey yeh nukta bhi nikalta hai kay biwi aur londi ki har cheez ja'ez hai aur halal hai yani maq'ad mein mubashrat karna bhi ja'ez aur halal hoga.
To phir iss per yeh daleel di jati hai kay amal e qom e loot ko to Quran mein wazeh tor per haram qaraar dya gaya hai. Quran majeed kay muta'alley sey ek baat samney aati hai kay ba'az jagah Quran majeed ney ek cheez ki hurmat ki taraf sirf ishara kya magar kisi doosri jagah isey wazahat sey haram qarar dey diya gaya. Yani koi aisa gunah e kabira nahin jis ko Quran o hadees mein wazahat sey beyan na kya gaya ho. Chunancha Quran majeed mein musht zani kay haram honay ki koi wazeh ayat mojood nahin. Iss tarah Allah kay nabi ney bhi isey haram qaraar nahi diya. Meine ahadees ki ahem kutub ko chaan maara, mujhey musht zani ki hurmat per koi ek bhi hadees nahin mili. Sirf Anas bin Malik kay hawaley sey ek hadees ka zikr aata hai magar ahl e ilm ney isey ghareeb qarar diya hai kyun kay is ski sanad mein ba'az ravi majhool aur za'eef hain.

Phir meine ulma e ahl e hadees aur ahnaaf sey bhi rabta kya to woh bhi kisi sahi hadees ki taraf meri rehnumaee nahin kar sakey, yeh masla mojooda daur ki paedawar nahin bul kay Allah kay nabi kay daur mein bhi tha. Meri naqis ra'ey mein Allah aur us kay nabi ney iss masley sey sarf-e-nazar kya hai. Chunancha Imam Zehbi ney apni mashhoor kitab 'Gunah e Kabira Ki Kitab' mein 79 gunah e kabira ka zikr kya hai. Jo darj zael hain:

  1. Allah kay sath shirk karna
  2. Qatal karna
  3. Jadu karna
  4. Namaz chorna
  5. Zakat ada na karna
  6. Mah e Ramzan ka roza bina uzr chorna
  7. Taqat kay bawajood Haj na karna
  8. Walaedaen ki nafarmani karna
  9. Qareebi rishtey daaron sey qata'a ta'alluq kar lena aur sila rehmi na karna
  10. Zina karna
  11. Amal e qom e loot
  12. Soodi laen daen
  13. Yateem ka maal khana
  14. Allah aur Rasool per jhoot bolna
  15. Maedan e jang sey farar
  16. Hakim e waqt ka re'aya ko dhoka dena aur unn per zulm karna
  17. Ghamand karna aur deengein marna
  18. Jhooti gawahi dena
  19. Sharab peena
  20. Jua baazi
  21. Paakdaman aurton per tohmat lagana
  22. Maal e ghaneemat mein khayanat karna
  23. Chori karna
  24. Daaka dalna
  25. Jhooti qasam khana
  26. Zulm o zyaditi karna
  27. Ghunda tax wasool karna
  28. Haram khana
  29. Khudkushi karna
  30. Aksar baton mein jhoot bolna
  31. Allah kay qanoon sey hutt kar faisla karna
  32. Faisla karney per rishwat lena
  33. Jins e mukhalif ki mushabihat ikhtiyar karna
  34. Dayyoosi ikhtiyar karna yani apney ghar walon mein akhlaqi buraee (zina) ko bardaasht karna
  35. Halala karney wala aur halala karwaney wala
  36. Peeshaab kay chee'nton sey perhaez na karna
  37. Jaanwaron kay mu'nh per daagh lagana
  38. Dunya kay husool kay liye ilm hasil karna aur ilm ko chupana
  39. Khayanat karna
  40. Ehsaan jatlana
  41. Taqdeer ko jhutlana
  42. Logon ki posheeda baton kit oh lagana
  43. Chughal khori karna
  44. Bilawajah la'anat karna
  45. Dhoka dena aur ahed poora na karna
  46. Najoomi aur kahan ki tasdeeq karna
  47. Khawand ki nafarmani karna
  48. Bilazaroorat tasweer banana
  49. Museebat kay waqt tamanchey marna, noha karna, kaprey pharna, ser kay baalon ko mundwadena, baalon ko nochna, halakat aur tabahee ki bud dua'en karna
  50. Zulm aur sarkashi karna
  51. Kamzor ghulam, londi, biwi ya janwar per zulm karna
  52. Parosi ko takleef dena
  53. Musalman ko takleef ya gali dena
  54. Takabbur ya baraee ki gharz sey tehband takhno'n sey neechey rakhna
  55. Soney chaandi kay bartanon mein khana peena
  56. Mardon ka sona ya resham pehenna
  57. Ghulam ka bhaag jana
  58. Ghaer Allah kay naam per zibah karna
  59. Jaan boojh kar haqeeqi nasb ka izhar karna
  60. Jhagraloo pan ka muzahira karna
  61. Izaafi pani rok lena
  62. Kam tolna ya kam naapna
  63. Allah ki tadbeero'n sey bey khauf hona
  64. Murdaar ya khinzeer ka gosht khana
  65. Juma'a aur farz namaz ko terk kardena
  66. Ba jama'at ki bajaey tanha namaz parhna
  67. Allah ki rehmat sey mayoos hona
  68. Musalman ko kafir kehna
  69. Dhoka fareeb dena
  70. Sahaba karam mein sey kisi ko gaali dena
  71. Ghalat faisla karney wala qazi
  72. Jhagrey kay doran gaaliyan dena
  73. Nasb ka tana dena
  74. Mayyat per noha karna
  75. Zameen kay nishanaat mitana
  76. Ghalat rivaj paeda karna ya gumraahi ki da'awat dena
  77. Ja'ali husn paeda karna
  78. Musalman ki taraf aslaha kay sath ishara karna
  79. Hudood-e-haram mein zyaditi karna

poori fehrist ka ba ghor jaeza lein, iss fehrist mein kahin khudlazzati ka zikr nahin.

Ek zamaney mein mujhey haerat thi kay ek kaam jisey 95% log karney per majboor hain, woh gunah hai. Ab ilm hua kay Allah aur uskay Rasool ney iss masley mein sukoot farmaya hai, magar humarey ba'az ulma'a ney isey haram qarar dey diya. Iss ka maqsad yeh nahin kay hum khudlazzati/mushtzani ki wakalat kar rahey hain na hum iska mashwara detey hain kay sab larkon aur naujawanon ko aisa karna chahiyie, meine khud nahin kii. Mujhey ehtelam bohut hota tha, ek raat mein do baar tak. Iss wajah sey mujhey iss ki zaroorat hi nahin parri. Humara maqsad sirf yeh hai kay iss mozou per mua'ashirey mein paee janey wali ghalat fehmiyon ki haqeeqat beyan karein, ta'hum iss kay koi nuqsaanat nahin aur na hi yeh gunah e kabira hai.
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